The Flooded Otter

Tossed around in choppy emotional waters, the Flooded Otter clings to others for safety — but might actually need space to breathe.

Traits of the Flooded Otter

What I see

I’m surrounded by people, yet I feel like I’m drowning. I want to stay upbeat and connected, but right now it feels like I can’t even hear myself think.

What Others See

You still seem upbeat and involved — maybe even extra animated. But close friends might sense you’re spiraling under the surface, caught between needing people and needing to disappear.

Finding a Deeper Meaning in the Flooded Otter

The Flooded Otter is emotionally saturated — overstimulated by noise, needs, and expectations (including your own). You thrive in connection, but right now connection feels like clutter, like pressure, like you’ve overcommitted to being the fun one or the fixer. There’s nothing wrong with being needed — but what happens when you need space? Or silence? Or someone to make things feel light for you for once?

  • Are you showing up for others because you want to — or because it’s your role?
  • What if your value didn’t depend on keeping the energy up?

You’re not sinking. But you do need a shore. Even otters need rest between the rapids.

The Playful Strategist